you know

You say this while pausing because you are unsure what to say next.

• It was, you know, a strange day.
• I wanted to, you know, explain things properly.
• We were, you know, just sitting there.

Similar words: um, well

Common phrases: well you know, you know um

You say this instead of explaining something you expect the listener to understand.

• They were upstairs, you know, together.
• I cannot visit him because of, you know, what happened.
• She needs a bigger coat because she is, you know, expecting.

Common phrases: because you know, they you know

You say this while you are still thinking about what to say next.

• I was, you know, trying to help.
• We need a, you know, bigger table.
• She looked, you know, rather surprised.

Similar words: um, well

Common phrases: well you know, you know um

You say this to make the listener pay attention to what you are saying.

• I am tired, you know.
• She worked hard for that prize, you know.
• You know, I paid for all of this myself.

Common phrases: you know really, important you know

You say this to check that the listener understands your feelings or what you mean.

• I felt left out, you know?
• It is hard to start again, you know?
• I wanted some time alone, you know what I mean?

Similar words: right

Common phrases: you know what, lonely you know