instead of

Used to show that one thing or action replaces another.

• Have water instead of juice.
• She walked instead of taking the bus.
• Could we meet on Friday instead of Thursday?

How to use it: instead of someone/something (Use milk instead of cream.); instead of doing something (We stayed home instead of going out.)

Similar words: rather than, in place of

Common phrases: instead of something, instead of doing something

Used to link two possible actions, showing which one is chosen.

• I would rather walk instead of drive.
• The teacher made us tidy the room instead of play outside.
• Would you rather help instead of watch?

How to use it: verb + instead of + verb (She would have him wait outside instead of sit in the hall.)

Similar words: rather than

Common phrases: instead of wait, instead of stay